SEX TIPS TO REKINDLE THE HEAT

In long-term relationships, it's easy to settle into a routine with your partner that, while may be comfortable, can make your sex life a tad mundane. However, by shaking it up and using these sex tips, you can revive the spark that first brought you two together. Here are a few ideas to consider.

Keep it pretty

First things first, it's impossible to have great sex if you don't feel sexy, so treat yourself to a blowout or some new lingerie, whatever is needed to put the "va-va-voom" back into your step.

Flirt with each other

Make a habit of sending playful, sexy messages to him throughout the day. Make him salivate with anticipation by telling him what you're wearing and what you want to do to him later.

Set the mood

Don't underestimate the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and doesn't have toys littering it. And turn off the tv

Just kiss

Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstaining from sex has the added benefit of charging up both of your libidos.

Surprise him

Don't wear any underwear and let him find out.

Watch an erotic film together

It doesn't have to be porn for it to be sexy. Some favorites: Body Heat, Belle du Jour, Last Tango in Paris, Like Water for Chocolate.

Play an adult game

Check out Game night for couples and Games that lovers play for some naughty suggestions.

Discover a new position

There are over 60 different positions in the Kama Sutra, so there's no excuse to not try a new one at least once a week!

Share your fantasies

A little role-playing can be fun and it doesn't have to be limited to the bedroom. Start the fun before you even get home by meeting at a bar and pretending you just met.

Get out of the bedroom

Sometimes a change of locale is all that's needed to rev up the action. Try having sex somewhere unexpected; just be careful not to get caught!

If any of the ideas makes you feel nervous, then you should definitely try it first. The great part of being with someone for an extended period of time is that you can fully trust and feel safe with him, so don't hesitate to try something out of your normal comfort zone, especially if it means revving your sex life up!

How to Apologize For Cheating on Your Partner

We all make mistakes, and some are bigger than others. No one can deny the fact that cheating on a spouse or committed partner is a big one. So what do you do once the damage is done, and better yet, how do you deal with the problem and fix the situation, can it be fixed?


STEPS

1.) Determine why you cheated.The first thing to understand is that cheating often signifies that there is something wrong, or missing with the person who cheated. The goal is to find out what that problem is, so once you and your partner move past the initial shock of your actions, you can decide how to best address the problem.

2.) Be ready for hard questions. If you got caught cheating on your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend, they will be angry and will most likely ask a lot of detailed questions such as "Do you love him/her?". These are going to be hard to answer, but be honest. Don't initially go into dramatic detail over your actions, but be honest about what you feel they need you to answer. If you shut down now and refuse to answer the questions, then a wedge could grow and lead to further distrust from your partner, as well as an inability to communicate and truly fix the problem.

3.) Be understanding. In situations like this, emotions will run deep and strong. By your actions, you've torn away a piece of his/her heart and that scar, like any other, can last for the rest of his/her life. That doesn't mean you can't salvage the relationship. Remember that normally cheating is a sign of something lacking, or wrong in the relationship. Did you figure out why you cheated? Once emotions have died down, talk it out. Explain to him/her that there is no excuse for your actions and that cheating was a bad solution to a serious problem. Explain to him/her what aspects of the relationship you're not happy with and see about counseling. Anything you try might work.

4.) Cut off communication with your lover. Obviously your partner isn't the only one involved in this, now that you've cheated. You've taken an outsider into it as well - the other individual. You need to contact the other person, under the supervision of your partner, and explain to the other person that your actions were wrong. If you wish to work it out with your partner, you must cut off all ties to the other person. Don't lie and pretend to, then sneak off to see them behind your partner's back, but truly and sincerely mean it!

5.) Keep communication lines open with your partner. There isn't going to be any way you can put a band-aid on this situation. In order to fix it, you're going to have to reprove your love, which means dealing with his/her lack of trust for you over a LONG period of time. Be willing to call him/her if you're going to be late from a night out and if he/she asks you be in touch, DO be in touch. Don't give his/her reasons not to trust you. If you say that your going to be home by 11, then be home by 11. If they ask you to come home early, come home early.

6.)Be patient. don't set a time limit for how long your partner is "allowed" to remain hurt or angry. Refusing to answer questions or acting like it's time to move on before your partner is ready is not a good plan. You started this process in motion, so you must be prepared to deal with the mess your selfishness left behind. Remember, it takes a moment to break down trust and a lifetime to re-build it.

How kiss and eating a girl's vagina

Introduction
This article is for members who want
learn how to properly kiss & eat a
woman's vagina, or who've heard that it
might not be all that bad to put their face
down there, and for women who want to
get their man to eat them period,
improvement in performance can come
later.
We are not experts.
Simply women who
knows what we like,
and has had all too
many experiences
with men who didn't seem to have the
vaguest idea what they were doing
between her legs.Straight or Lesbian,
eating pussy an art.
Eating a woman's vagina is about the
most wonderful thing you can do for her.
It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy,
and of course it makes her cum like crazy.
Many women prefer it to intercourse, and
for most, it's the easiest way to cum with
a man. You may have the littlest cock on
the planet, but if you give great head,
you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover.
Yes, it's that important. Besides, lots of
women expect it these days so you might
as well get to know what you're doing.
Studies show that 90 percent of married
couples under 25 give head and for
couples over 50, at least 55 percent of
the men are eating vagina, with 95
percent of the men and 82 percent of the
women enjoying it.
Many guys seem to have a strange love/
hate relationship with women's genitalia.
Guys that can't wait to get their cock into
one are often reluctant to put their face
"down there." For every guy who says he
loves to eat vagina, there's another one
who's squeamish. Women know this, and
it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy
the experience.
This is for you gals. Before you can get
him to eat vagina for the first time, you
need to get him worked up about the
idea, that is, get him to think about sex
for a few minutes, but don't do anything
to make him cum yet. He's got a sex
switch in his brain that turns on when he
sees a woman, especially a naked one,
and turns off as soon as he cums, this is
why who does what first can be very
important in the beginning, less so as the
two of you mature.
Fortunately, it won't take much to get
him to eat you the first time, just undress
and ask him to, let him look at your
vagina for a while, show him your clit and
let him play with it, promise him a good
fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you've
read the second section, if he seems the
least bit interested straddle his head and
rub your bush over his face.
What's Down There?
This is for you guys. Most men don't
really know what they've been sticking
their cock into. Many women also don't
appreciate what they have, and can't
understand why a man would think that it
was beautiful, let alone want to put his
face in it.
Why would a man like to eat vagina? Most
men I know who really love women and
want make having sex with them a joint
endeavor rather than a conquest, also like
to eat vagina. They don't want to just eat
her, they want to bring her to a great
climax and then build her up for a fuck
that neither will forget, or maybe get a
good blowjob if that's what she wants to
do.
I think that there are two basic reasons.
First, many men want to give their
woman the most sexual satisfaction they
can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to
great lengths to do so, the more their
woman likes what they are doing to her,
the harder their cocks get until
sometimes they cum just from eating
her. The second is the role that the
mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in
sex. Why do people kiss? They receive
pleasure from the interaction that takes
place during a kiss.
The mouth, lips and tongue are some of
the more erogenous zones of the body
and are active rather than passive, you do
something with them. You nibble on her
ears, kiss and suck on her nipples, kiss
her navel, why not kiss and suck on the
most sexual part of her body, her vagina.
The tastes and odors of the fresh
secretions from a clean healthy woman's
vagina are also erotic to many men. Put
this all together and your mouth in her
vagina is where it's at guys.

What a women want in bed

Here i give you ideas about the women thinking.........................Look, I know you men have it difficult.
Women are just about impossible to
understand, much less please. In a
post-feminist society, you never know
exactly what you should be doing.
Women are bloody picky, I know we
are. It can be scary, too, when women
freak out about what appear to be
benign issues. And men who do their
best to be respectful, female-positive
humans, I salute you, I do.
But please, please just fuck me
already. Honestly, I appreciate your
thoughtfulness. I like that you want to
take things slow. I can totally get
behind the idea of emotional
connection, but dearjesusinheaven,
FUCK ME. We’ve done dinner and
drinks. We’ve gone dancing. We’ve
cuddled and watched a movie. I’m
wearing a low cut shirt and you’ve
been staring at my breasts all night.
Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck
me.
When we get hot and heavy, please
take charge. Please, please fuck me.
Trust me, I’m not going to just lie still –
I’ll get involved. But don’t make me
force your hand into my panties. That
makes me feel like a rapist. We’ve
been kissing for a half hour and your
hand keeps grazing my ass. That’s
nice, but it’s time to move forward. Get
on top of me. Don’t make me get on
top right out of the gate and start
bobbing up and down on your cock like
I’m practicing some crazy new aerobic
yoga because YOU won’t go down on
me. Roll on top and start dry humping
like a good boy should. Don’t gently
suck my nipples and then pull back
when I moan with pleasure. You being
coy is totally not what I want. It’s not
what WE want.
OK, I know it’s scary. There are lots of
women out there who make fucking
really difficult. So, I have compiled
some handy tips. Don’t think of this as
complaining, or as schadenfreude for
the Andrea Dworkins of the world . Just
some simple tips, for timid men who
have forgotten what it means to fuck
like men:
1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there
will be some women who feel that you
are pushy. If you are making out with
a woman, and she starts to push back,
ask nicely if things are moving too fast.
If she says yes, say something like “I’m
sorry – you just look so fucking
delicious. I’ll go slower.” Otherwise,
skillfully move forward. If you start
kissing a woman, and she responds
well, and before long, you’re both on
the floor with her skirt pushed up, and
you on top of her, it’s not the time to
roll onto your back and start
awkwardly stroking the top of her
head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair.
YOU’RE the man . Act like one.
2. Ohmyfuckinggod, please learn to
respect the clit. It’s different for every
woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I
repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers
around her pussy like you’re trying to
tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips
against her vulva like you are
impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire
Center for your receipt. Do not push
the clit like it is a doorbell at some
house that you need to get inside of.
Start by using all four fingers with
firm yet gentle pressure against the
outside of her pussy. Do not charge in
with a single finger and start jabbing
at things. And if you really don’t know
what to do, ask her. Just ask. “How do
you like it?”. It’s a simple question, and
most women will answer straight out.
If she’s being all coy, ask “Do you like
pressure? Is it sensitive?” The clitoris
is a varied item, indeed. Treat each
one as though you have never
encountered one before. Forget
everything that your last partner
liked.
3. Most women like to be fucked, and
fucked well. Yes, there are women out
there who want to “make love” every
time – sweet, gentle, rocking love with
lots of eye contact and loving kisses.
Those women are not the majority.
The majority like to be pounded. The
majority like to have their hair pulled.
The majority like a good, solid
jackhammering. When a woman is
bucking wildly against you, it’s not
because she wants you to pull back
and slowly swirl your cock around her
vagina like you’re mixing a cake batter
up there. It’s because she wants you to
hold down her arms, or grab her hips,
or push her legs above her head, and
fuck her harder. Don’t be too afraid of
what this means as far as gender
equality goes – I am a raging feminist
bitch, but I still want to be penetrated
like you are planning on fucking my
throat from the inside out.
4. A little roughness is nice. Do not
pretend that you had no idea that
some women like their hair pulled. Do
not act shocked if she wants you to
spank her (“Really? Spanking? Won’t it
hurt?” – yes, it does. That’s the fucking
point). We know you’ve read Stuff and
Maxim, and that’s all those laddie
mags talk about in their “How to
Please Her” sections. Start with light,
full handed smacks to the area of her
ass that she sits on. Judge her
response and continue on from there.
You don’t have to bend her over one
knee and tell her she’s a naughty girl
and that Daddy’s going to punish her;
save that for the fifth date . Women
are less delicate than you think, so
don’t worry about breaking her hip.
5. It’s OK for you to make noise.
Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking
a ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja,
and have sneaked into our rooms with
vibrating nanuchaku and zippered
black pajamas, please, please make
some noise. If you’re banging a
woman, and she’s crying out and
saying your name and moaning, and
you can’t even manage a grunt, she’s
going to feel like an idiot. You don’t
have to make the sounds she is making,
but do SOMETHING. You know how
when you are watching porn, and the
girl does something great to the guy
and the guy kind of goes “Ah!”, half
grunt, half yell? That’s HOT. Do that.
Whisper our name (assuming you
know it) gruffly. Groan against her
neck when you’re in missionary
position. You don’t have to grunt like a
mountain gorilla, but if you are totally
mute, she’s going to get worried.
6. Most women like dirty talk, in
addition to the grunting. If you’d like
to get some dirty talk going, ask her if
she likes the way you fuck her. If she
responds well, continue with
something like, “I love fucking you.
God, you look so fucking hot.” Is she
still moaning in response? “Your tits
are so beautiful.” Does that work? If
she doesn’t respond well to the term
“tits”, you might have to stop there. If
she keep moaning or responding, pass
Go and collect $200. Try the following:
“Oh, god. Your pussy is SO tight.”
“You’re so wet – are you wet because
you like the feel of my cock ramming
you?”
“I think I’m going to come inside you.
I’m going to fill up your little cunt.” It
doesn’t matter that you’re wearing a
condom; we LOVE hearing this.
If all of those work, you can then
progress to things like “sexy little
bitch” and “dirty whore”. Tread
carefully, but please, tread. Do not
tiptoe. Do not sit down. Charge.
6. You’re not obligated to eat a woman
out. In return, she’s not obligated to
choke on your dick. Don’t skip one and
expect the other. If you do eat a
woman out, the only comment you
should make about her pussy is how
nice it is. The length of her labia
minora, the color of her interior, her
waxing job or full bush – you are not
John Madden. No time for color
commentary.
7. Do not bitch about condoms. Oh, we
hate them. Trust us. They hurt us
more than they hurt you. But we don’t
want to be preggers, and you don’t
want to catch anything, right? Don’t
whine about condom sex. Do not
explain that you can’t come with one
on. LEARN to come with one on, or if
not, help us figure out what to do with
you once we’re satisfied and it’s time
for you to let loose your load.
8. We really like it when you come. It’s
called a money shot for a reason.
Watching semen shoot out of you is
one of the most gratifying things EVER.
However, do not assume that she
wants you to jack it off onto her face.
She might, but don’t assume. Seeing
and/or feeling you come is rewarding
for us, so there’s no need to deprive us
of it, but please do consult us before
unleashing. “I think I’m going to come
– how do you like it?” is a fair question
that shouldn’t rob you of your
testicles.
In recent memory, I’ve been fucked by
a very aggressive, manly guy, and I’ve
been… well, fucked is the wrong term
here. I’ve been penetrated by a total
and utter wuss. Who am I going to run
back to when I’m ready for my fill?
Manly McHardon, that’s who.
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*New point of clarification – some
people have brought up some really
great issues in response to this post, so
let me say this: I don’t mean to imply
that all women like to be treated like
whores. I do mean to say that most
women I know have told me that they
like sex rougher than most men give it
to them. Rough does NOT equal chains
and bondage. And this applies to the
bedroom only, and does not mean that
she wants you to choose her dinner for
her, or treat her like less of a person.
**Some women have said that they
don’t like it rough and what the hell
am I thinking? Well, girls , you’re in the
minority. HOWEVER, all women need
to remember that, in addition to be
straight forward about your sexual
desires, you need to be straight
forward about your sexual limits.
Don’t be afraid to ask for more, but
when something feels wrong, say so.
Don’t ever do something you don’t
want to do in silence and then blame
the guy. Silence is dangerous.

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